I’m sitting here at a pivotal moment of my own awareness in life. My left finger tips building up callouses yet again from my two week break of playing the guitar and Pu’ehr tea to my left, I pose the question to myself… How are we all showing up in our relationships with one another?
One thing I love about relating to all different kinds of human beings is what we see within ourselves through the other person.
We have a tendency to attract what proves our theories about life. If we have theories that it’s hard to trust people, you will attract those that have a tendency to be dishonest. If you have a tendency toward drama, the relationship will prove to be dramatic.
Like attracts like, it’s not some spiritual concept that is hard to grasp, it’s literally a manifestation of your focus in this world. In nature, the flower will grow in such a way to bask in more of the sunlight’s rays, it’s the flowers focus.
So here’s another question to pose to yourself…If your partner is showing up in this particular way in your life, it’s important to begin asking yourself questions.
“So-in-so” is a liar, how have I been lying in this relationship? Most of the time it doesn’t manifest in the same ways because people are playing different roles in relationship dynamics. But maybe, the entire time throughout that relationship (as an example), you were lying to yourself about your true feelings. You weren’t being in INTEGRITY with your true feelings, you were enabling a liar, therefore, you are yourself…a liar. That’s an AHA moment right there!
So how do you shift it, be empowered by the information and allow openness to flow through us? Well, now that we’re informed, we take that big, sweaty palm, throat clearing plunge to say how you truly feel. When we open ourselves to truth, our entire energy body becomes fluid and clear. When truth is expressed, usually a situation will resolve, grow, expand, go deeper or the relationship will dissipate and those cords weaving that tangled mess within the relationship will begin to fall away. TRUTH is a win, win.
So, take a moment to ask yourself, How do I show up in my relationships and how are certain things playing out in my life? If things come up that are beyond your preferences, begin to take responsibility and create a master plan on how you are going to shift the unpleasant to the joyful (hint: TRUTH). After all, you are the weaver of dreams, open to miracles and more powerful than you may realize. It’s time to start acting like it!
*I’d love for you to share what works and what doesn’t in your relationships, we can all learn from one another!
With love and honesty,
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